The one for me.

Invincible - Hedley

But I found the strength inside to see, found the better part of me and I'll never let it go. I'm not the only one that crashed into the sun and lived to fight another day. Like a supernova, that old life is over, I'm here to stay. Now I'm gonna be INVINCIBLE.

I really love this song. Really, really inspirational. I listen to this song whenever I'm feeling stressed out, feeling down etc. And it never fails to bring my spirits up. Never give up when you're facing obstacles, cause these are the obstacles that help you to grow. God has a reason for putting them in your life. After the rain comes sunshine, so never give up. Instead, pull out that few moments of courage and be invincible.

Anyways, this is gonna be a quick post cause I've got lotsa studying to do for my upcoming tests. Back to college on 9 January. How lovely is that?

Yeah.

I realized that lack of communication and misunderstandings can really cause damage to a relationship; be it with your spouse, family or friends. I always seem to hear family/friends commenting about their parents, complaining about their parents being too nosy, too bothersome, too naggy, too strict, only care about grades, giving them so much stress etc. I'm pretty sure everyone have heard similar complains. And I know parents do complain about their children being too playful, too disrespectful, too dumb, too lazy etc. Yes, I've heard my parents say those stuff about me, and likewise, I'm one of those that complain about my parents once in awhile.

What I'm tryna say is that, all these, I think they're pretty normal. We shouldn't really overreact to stuffs like these right? I mean, cmonnnnn. This proves that we're human. We've feelings. And I think it's alright cause this is like letting your emotions out. I think it's healthier than just keeping everything in. After all, if you don't say how you truly feel, how would we know what's your take on it? No one can read your mind! Bottling everything up will probably just lead to an explosive reaction one day.

So yeah, I think it's alright for both parties to complain about one another. Sure, I do get kinda annoyed when my parents say horrible stuff about me to their family/friends/strangers, but I don't really bother cause I do the same thing. I would be a hypocrite if I actually get really pissed off and upset.

I don't approve of swearing at your parents/children though. That's just wrong. Swearing is wrong. Geez seriously, use some proper vocabulary. Not all those profanities. Profanities are just.. weird. And wrong. I think I can find nicer/more polite ways to insult someone rather than stuffs like the F word. Besides, I get to sound more sophisticated. A double win for me haha.

So yeah. I think it's kinda okay for both parties to say bad stuff about one another. It's human. We have emotions and it's not good to keep them in. This is one of the reasons why I wanna major in psychology. I want to be there for people, listening to their problems, helping them get rid of whatever that's eating them on the inside. I want to help them feel better about themselves, know where they've gone wrong and how to be a better person. And of course, it's also cause somehow, I enjoy listening to others' problems and helping them to get out of it.

And yes, it would be better if both parties don't say anything bad about one another cause it seems rather silly. It will definitely be better to just focus on the good points and help others to get rid of their bad points. But then again, it's hard to control our emotions so........... yeah. So yup, I'm also tryna focus on everyone's good points and ignore the bad parts/help them to change for the better. Not doing a very good job currently, but I will do my best to change hahaha.

Gee this post is really long. But typed it super fast cause I didn't bother to think what sounds right and what sounds wrong.

This post is just a personal opinion so I hope no one gets offended or anything.

OKAY STUDY.